Wednesday, January 9, 2008

Abstinence-Only Texts a Slippery Slope in CA Classrooms

Abstinence-only sex-education is illegal in CA schools – a mandate requires that if a school teaches sex education, there must be comprehensive education about AIDS prevention including safer sex practices. Where a school can choose not to provide sex ed, they cannot provide abstinence only sex ed.

But the CA mandate has no guidelines about how the information should be –disseminated - to students. A teacher or sex-ed program could provide the information in a variety of ways: through textbooks, handouts, lectures, films or any other method. This is why abstinence-only text books have been allowed into California’s high schools.

“I can’t believe it,” said Nancy Resnick of Moraga, CA about her daughter, Elizabeth Hassler’s human sexuality text book. The book, written by Brigham Young Scholars is a mainstream textbook distributed through Glencoe McGraw Hill. But despite being a hefty, 10 pound text, the sex-ed book fails to use the work “condom” even once – not even in the glossary. Upon a close investigation of the index, a reference to “birth control” is found. The term appears in the pre-natal section, where the book boldly states that use of birth control pills “can lead to birth defects.”

The district’s use of this book leaves it to teachers to provide medically accurate and complete information and to inform students about safer sex. In fact, California law requires that teachers provide such comprehensive sex ed. But in lieu of having a monitor in every sex-ed classroom across the state, and because the textbooks provided are terribly incomplete teachers and principles are left to ensure the law is upheld – and apparently some choose to ignore it.

Elizabeth and other students at Campolindo high School in Moraga have said that one teacher in particular failed to deliver information about safer sex.

“It’s weird because we learned about condoms in 6th grade,” said Elizabeth, then a freshman at Campolindo. Part of the success of California’s previous sex ed policies can be seen in the decline of teen pregnancies over the past decade. But despite this drop, teens still have sex. The average age for loss of virginity is 17, well before high school graduation. The definition of “virginity” to most students often does not include other sexual activities that students engage in, many of which could lead to STD contraction.

“It’s about how we have sex,” said young Oakland man, referring to the lack of knowledge in young people about what constitutes risky sexual activity.. “I remember saying ‘I should put something on if we’re going to keep doing this,’ and she said ‘no, no, we’re not having sex..’”

When teens have incomplete ideas of what constitutes sex, and even teens informed about safer sex don’t feel the need to use protection when engaging in anything except sex-is-when-the-penis-enters-the-vagina sexual activity, why are we adding more confusion by teaching abstinence as a method of disease control? Will students now think that abstaining from the one act, but possibly engaging in others, will protect them from sexually transmitted infections?

Whatever the reality of teen sexuality may be, Glencoe McGraw Hill seems to be far more interested in the political satisfaction of adults than in equipping today’s youth with the information they need to protect themselves from miserable diseases like AIDS.

California is not the only state where the company’s abstinence-only books have popped up, despite state laws against abstinence-only curriculum. The same books have sparked some controversy in New York State. As long as these text books are allowed, teens are at high risk of not getting the adequate safer sex information that they desperately need. A slippery slope indeed.

Tuesday, January 8, 2008

Not Just Wrong, Illegal

It's as plain as day: Abstinence-only sex education is illegal in the state of California.

http://www.cde.ca.gov/ls/he/se/

Safer Sex Toys Flash Animation



This Flash animation is meant to serve as a primer for safer use of sex toys. Many people don't consider the risk of contracting STIs from sex toys - or the numerous other health risks related to them.

Safer Sex Shorts

This is a set of three safer sex related videos.
There are a few seconds of black screen at the beginning of the video.
Part one: Safer Way Public Service Announcement
Part two: Safer Sex Supplies Demonstration
Part three: Safer sex in Real-to-life Situations



Video work by Nicole Erny for New College of California

Monday, January 7, 2008

Bite-Sized Sex Ed - With Links!

Does abstinence have a failure rate?

YES!

Teens that take an abstinence pledge and then become sexually active are more likely than other sexually active teens to have unprotected sex!

SO:

Even if you choose abstinence, it is best to be informed about the next-best protections from STDs and unwanted pregnancy.

Abstinence doesn’t just mean avoiding vaginal sex. Any genital contact including touching, oral sex and anal sex also spread STDs.

Body fluids like blood, semen and vaginal fluid can pass AIDS/HIV, Herpes, and all the other STIs

Here’s how not to get them:

Abstinence is one option, but like all of the options it has a failure rate. Just because you think you will not have sex does not mean that you won’t. Many circumstances cause people to change their minds quickly. Choosing Abstinence does not mean that you don’t need to learn about safer sex practices. Safer sex is a large social issue, and its benefits can only be reaped when everyone is educated. Choosing your own method of safer sex is a personal choice – a choice that you can only be better at making by learning more!

Choose your sexual partners cautiously. Talk to them about their sexual history. Ask them what they think of condoms.

Get tested for STIs frequently. If you have a disease, disclose it to future partners.

Get tested with your partner if you are in a monogamous relationship. You must be tested 2 times over a 6 month period to determine whether you have contracted a Sexually transmitted disease.

A gynecological exam does NOT test for all STIs. You must take a blood test to test for HIV/AIDS and other diseases.

Condoms are considered the best method of disease control. Be sure you use them properly. Condoms must be in place before any genital contact occurs in order to prevent disease. Condoms may not prevent against diseases like herpes and syphillus, but they are 98% effective in AIDS prevention.

Condoms are also used on sex toys to keep them clean. If you share a sex toy, be sure to put a fresh condom on. Bodily fluids on the outside of the condom could spread disease.

Use condoms and dental dams when engaging in oral sex ( the exception is if you and your partner have both been tested for ALL STIs 2 times over a period of 6 months and are monogamous)

The “female condom” is not strictly for females it is a receptive condom. It can be used in the vagina or anus.

Safer is sexy!

Birth control comes in a variety of forms. Even if you do not have regular health care, you may be able to get birth control through planned parenthood or through a program in your state. There are affordable options.

Plan B

Is an emergency contraceptive – only for use if you have had an accident (like a ripped condom) Plan B can help prevent a pregnancy but it does NOT prevent disease.

If you have suspected STD exposure, seek emergency care immediately.

There has been some development of anti-AIDS drugs that can work within the few hours after an accident


If you have been raped or sexually asaulted:

Seek emergency care immediately. Most hospitals have discreet units especially for victims of sexual assault.

Rape is an issue for people of all sexes, genders, sexual orientations, ethnicities, and socio-economic backgrounds. Most rapes are perpetrated by a person the victim knows. No is No. Even if you have been making out, if you say no to sex and are forced to perform sexual activity, that is rape.

The best protection for yourself in any instance of rape is to seek immediate medical attention in an Emergency Room. This allows you to prevent pregnancy, prevent some STD contraction, and alleviate and vaginal, anal, or bodily trauma. It also is the only sure way to document legal evidence of the rape if you choose to press charges against the perpetrator at a later date.

Remember, you are not alone. Many women and men have survived sexual assault. There are people that understand your feelings and concerns and are available to help you.

Sexual health doesn’t end at sex:

Urinary Tract Infections:

Many women develop urinary tract infections as a side effect of sexual activity. Learn more about them and how to prevent them

Menstrual health:

It is important to learn about and know your cycle. Being aware of how much and how often you menstruate can be an important tool in diagnosing menstrual and reproductive ailments. You can also learn about alieving cramps and discomfort during your period.

Tampons, pads, the environment and toxins

Many women’s hygiene products are made with less than desirable products. Dioxins (chemicals used as bleach) enters your body through tampons and disposable pads it is unclear what effect these may have on your body, but bleaches are highly toxic, so you may want to reconsider what you put inside or close to your body.

Many women find other alternatives like the diva cup, natural sea sponges or or re-usable cloth pads to be more comfortable and convenient.

Luna Pads

Glad Rags

Diva Cup


Be Safer and informed!


This posting is not intended to replace comprehensive sex education. The poster is not a certified sex education or health care professional.

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